Hi Laura, I also have a really busy life and it took a while (like a couple years) to figure out what I needed to make progress, even if slowly. So you are ahead of the game! For me it was 1) figuring out the style I wanted to study; 2) finding accountability; and 3) finding a jam so I could play with others. Surprisingly, the jam I recently joined is not the style I chose to work on — but it’s been such great fun. Despite being so busy, I had to give myself permission to do both. Many skills transferred! In the end, playing with others accomplishes all three, though I’ve found it valuable to study with expert help in a group class setting. This was possible remotely so I could take classes over zoom after work.
Lisa